Goodbye Velcro shoes, hello laces! As children enter elementary school, they become more independent with self-dressing. Children begin to learn how to tie their own shoes between 5-7 years old. Tying shoe laces requires strong fine motor skills including finger isolation, bilateral hand coordination, visual perceptual skills, hand-eye coordination and hand strength.
Learning to tie shoelaces for the first time can be very rewarding. It may also be frustrating for kids if they become overwhelmed. For a positive shoe tying experience, follow these tips:
- Let your child pick out their first pair of tennis shoes. The new pair of shoes will help motivate your child!
- Do not practice shoe tying when you are in a rush. Try practicing after school instead of during the morning rush.
- Remain calm and relaxed while practicing. Model the process on your own shoes.
- Practice one step at a time. Do not move on until your child has conquered the current step.
- Be consistent with word choice: Loops, bunny ears, twist, knot, etc.
- Begin with the shoe off until the skill is mastered. Laces become tight when on the foot, making tying more difficult.
- Avoid using the words ‘left’ and ‘right’ unless your child is proficient at distinguishing the two. Instead put a sticker or sharpie dot on the child’s dominant side, and refer to the ‘sticker’ or ‘non-sticker’ side. Using two different colored laces is a great alternative as well.
- Print off a visual step-by-step picture and hang it near the shoes.
As with everything, practice makes perfect. Continue to encourage your child to keep working at tying his/her own shoes. Below are some resources to help ease the process.
YouTube Educational videos:
- Clever Way To Practice Shoe Tying for Kids: MamaOT creates a life hack by gluing together two different colored shoelaces for a better visual.
- The Easiest Way to Tie Shoes: If your child is having difficulty with shoe tying, try this alternative method!
Introducing shoe lacing without the pressure of a real shoe:
- I Can Tie My Own Shoes
- Melissa & Doug Deluxe Wood Lacing Sneaker
- Children’s Wooden Lacing Shoe Learn to Tie Laces Educational
- DIY Shoe Lace Tying Board
Make your own practice materials:
- Egg Carton Shoe tying: Punch holes into the tops of an egg carton and string two different color laces through the holes as if you are lacing a shoe. Use the laces to practice tying a shoe.
- Shoe-tying practice board: Watch this tutorial for an easy and effective way to make a practice shoe board using cardboard and laces!
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